reaction

i don’t think we really choose our friends, i feel that we realize when that state exists or when it has faded. i also believe that trust happens in this same way. we do not assign trust or “give” it, it exists on its own. so this leads me to “favourites” or what we favour. are we so in control of what we like? or is this too an eventuality of attribute and element? do we just decide we do or do not like a thing or is it that we merely realize the state of existing rhythms?
at most we have an influence on the above things, definitely not control. at least not a control that is balanced.
this is not to say we do not have choice or purpose. hardly anything, if at all, is defined and static. we continue on with ourselves doing our best, trying to be good and survive and adapt.